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| Linda came to Bulgaria with her family. |
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| Her husband Freddie owns a restaurant in Sofia. |
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| Linda works as a translator and is also one of the founders and chairwoman of the Council of Refugee Women in Bulgaria – a small NGO that supports refugees during their process of local integration. |
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| As a refugee you cannot get a visa and go wherever you like. |
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| We were content with the country that would give us security. |
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| The first thing I felt when I arrived in Bulgaria was peace and safety. |
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| People were so tolerant towards my family and me. |
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| People take care of each other here. |
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| I honestly really feel Bulgarian; the feeling comes from within. |
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| At the beginning when I got here I did not know any Bulgarian words, so we decided to live in a Bulgarian neighbourhood, inhabited by local people. |
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| We let the kids play with Bulgarian children and we only watched Bulgarian television. |
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| One time, when buying groceries, the cashier asked me about my kids. |
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| I told her in English: I have two children - Sandra and George. |
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| She asked in Bulgarian: Momiche i Momche? |
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| I told her: No, Sandra and George. |
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| She again said: Momiche i Momche. |
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| I asked my daughter to come translate and ask the cashier why she so badly wanted to change the names of my children. |
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| It turned out that Momiche i Momche are the Bulgarian words for girl and boy. |
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| One other thing that differentiates Bulgarians from the rest of the world is the way they nod yes and no. |
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| I wanted to go to the city centre and there were five taxis waiting in the street. |
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| I went to the first one and asked: to the centre? |
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| He nodded no. |
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| So I went and asked the second, he also nodded no. |
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| The same happened with the third and fourth. |
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| Finally the fifth driver answered in English and said yes. |
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| So I asked him: Why didnt the other drivers want to give me a ride? |
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| He answered: did they nod their head saying no? |
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| Well, that is the way we nod yes in Bulgaria. |