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| Chaqir: I am from Rabat, Morocco. |
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| I was 11 years old when my parents decided to divorce. |
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| At the divorce tribunal, the judge gave custody of myself and my big brother to my father, who would not allow my mother to see us anymore. |
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| As a divorced woman of a military general, she had trouble finding a new job and decided to join my aunt that was working in Italy. |
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| My brother, who was sixteen at the time, had a fight with my father. |
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| He believed that it was all his fault our mother had not visited. |
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| So, we decided to follow my mother in Italy, although we didnt really understand what we were doing or how to get there. |
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| We were lucky enough to meet an Italian truck driver on the way, who noticed that my brother was wearing an original Naples soccer team jersey signed by Maradona, a present from our father. |
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| We traded the jersey to get on his truck across the border. |
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| He had his shirt and we were in Europe. |
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| At first, my mother was veryupset about our decision to run away but eventually all that settled down. |
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| Sometimes I cannot believe that I would have never got the chance to meet Barbara, my girlfriend, had I not left Morocco. |
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| In many ways, she had a very similar experience to my own and this makes us closer. |
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| My hope for the world is that different people with different experiences can move around and meet one another. |
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| No matter where you come from, everyone should be allowed to be with the person they love if that is what they want. |
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| Barbara: My parents decided to leave Albania because there was a citizens rebellion that broke out. |
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| Life became very difficult to bear, so they fled and found the first ship to Italy. |
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| It was about one year before I was born. |
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| My family lived in an abandoned hostel, together with migrants of all kinds of nationalities, for the next fifteen years. |
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| As a kid, I did not think that it was strange. |
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| I did not feel uncomfortable or uneasy; it felt like a big family and I liked it. |
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| But then when I went to school, I started to realize that my classmates had really different living conditions. |
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| I began to feel shy, like there was something missing from my life. |
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| When I started dating in high school, I noticed that guys wouldnt call me back when they knew I had Albanian origins, so I would tell them I was from Greece or was half Italian. |
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| Things have gotten better with time. |
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| People tolerate mixed couples now, while a few years ago it was not accepted at all. |
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| One time, while I was having a drink with a friend, Chaqir approached me speaking in English. |
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| We continued to chat in English but I had a feeling that he was from Italy! |
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| He thought I was a foreigner, and when I told him I was actually born in Italy he apologized in Italian and we started laughing. |
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| Soon after, we became friends and started dating. |
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| Being different is not something bad. |
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| It adds to the lives of people that you meet. |