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| I was born and raised in Croatia, the former Yugoslavia, and 2017 will mark 20 years since my family and I arrived to United States as refugees. |
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| Unfortunately, my story is increasingly familiar in todays world. |
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| My family fled Yugoslavia in 1997, as a result of the civil war and its aftermath, in search of a better life. |
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| 'Better life,' - what does that mean, really? |
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| Finding a place where you will feel a little more like a human again? |
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| In a place where you will not be judged by religion or ethnicity every day? |
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| I was 11 years old when the first signs of war appeared on the horizon and my family started the first of several relocations - at the time we hoped they were temporary. |
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| Soon after that, we became refugees. |
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| We lost not only our material possessions, but a little bit of our dignity too. |
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| Being a refugee is ingrained in your psyche because of everything you go though. |
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| After moving around for a number of years, our big journey to the unknown began. |
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| On the airplane headed to the United States I heard my father weep for the first time in my life. |
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| A million different thoughts and feelings were roaring in my head all at once. |
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| We were on our way to something new with very minimal knowledge of the language, place and people we would find on the other side. |
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| Still, we were ready for an opportunity. |
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| Thanks to hard work, some luck and amazing people we met along the way, we were able to learn the language, integrate and excel. |
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| My parents had a harder time than my brother and I, but I know they did it for us and the future generation. |
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| Being a father myself today, I realize just how much parents are willing to sacrifice for their children. |
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| Sometimes I wonder if I was born in the wrong place at the wrong time; maybe my life would have been different if I didnt have to worry about my religion and race from a young age. |
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| Even though many years have passed since I first left my country, I still dont feel like I have a physical home. |
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| Instead, my heart and mind are torn and I feel like a citizen of the world. |
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| I was always very silent growing up, and I did not tell many people that I am refugee or what my family went through, most likely because I didnt want to be judged or pitied. |
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| I no longer want to be silent. |
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| Refugees are humans just like you. |
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| Now I can proudly say that I am a refugee - what I went through made me who I am today. |